One thing a missionary to Haiti learns very quickly is that the Haitians are a very dignified people; they have their pride, despite all they have had to endure. Here are some tips for visitors:
- There are some beggars and peddlars in the cities, but they are the exception, not the rule. Don’t expect kow-towing. Impoverished Haitians will almost always stand straight, look you in the eye, and repay you with a sincere “Mesi” (thank you).
- Haiti is a nation of fairly conservative norms. Modest dress when exploring Haiti’s cities is advised, especially for women.
- The smart visitor should look people in the eye, wave hello, and treat them with friendship and respect, as equals, no matter how poor or desperate their living conditions may seem.
- Try to learn some basic words of Haitian Creole.
- Don’t walk about sticking your camera in people’s faces or taking pictures randomly. Do not solely take pictures of the piles of trash you may see in some of the bigger cities as it is offensive
- Sometimes visitors to Haiti walk about handing out candy or dollar bills and while many people will accept your offering, it compromises the dignity of Haitians and furthers dependency.
- Be patient. Nothing moves fast in Haiti.
- Most people will find your whining amusing at best and severely insulting at worst.
- Carry a few photos of the area where you live, your workplace, or your family to share with friends you make. These are the things that transform you from just another tourist into a real person. More often than not, the people will return the favor, and you might just find a friend.
Most importantly, Your emotions are real. It is okay to feel overwhelmed if you have not experienced this type of culture difference before. If you are easily affected by signs of poverty, Haiti is not for you. Be polite but not intrusive. It is OK to ask questions of the locals. Remember that you are a guest in their country. Don’t expect to be treated as a king or a queen (though you might get some extra privileges) because you’re foreign. Though with respect, Haitians are warm and helpful people.
We are in the country to be servant above all else. We are servants of both the people of Haiti and the long term missionaries.
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